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Ministry leaders carry more than most people realise. Our blog explores the psychological, relational, and theological dimensions of sustainable service — because those who care for others deserve good thinking in their corner.

Social Prescribing: do we want in?

29 April 2026 | cathy

I’ve recently read David Brooks’ book, How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen. Brooks argues that the one skill that lies at the heart of any healthy person, family, school, community organisation or society is the ability to accurately know another person, to let them feel valued, heard and understood. In some ways, this seems so obvious, and yet, as a society, we don’t always do this well. All around us are people who feel invisible, unseen, misunderstood. Loneliness and social isolation are significant challenges for our communities. And it

Navigating the Unique Challenges of Ministry: Insights from Dr. Chris Adams

15 April 2026 | Valerie Ling

Ministry is a calling that comes with its own set of challenges, especially for those in pastoral roles. In a recent conversation with Dr. Chris Adams, a clinical psychologist and executive director of the Mental Health and the Church Initiative at Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology, we explored the complexities of being a pastor and the unique stressors that can lead to burnout. This post unpacks key insights from our discussion, providing valuable takeaways for both ministry leaders and congregants. Understanding the Role of Pastors The role of a pastor is unlike any other helping profession. As

The Power of Influence

30 March 2026 | Valerie Ling

Power: the ability to change behaviour Political scientist Robert Dahl famously defined power as “the ability to get someone to do something they would not otherwise have done.” In leadership, that shows up whenever your role, resources, or control of information mean your decisions change people’s behaviour even if they’d have chosen differently. Power, used on its own, can secure action while quietly eroding trust, initiative, and honesty. People do what you ask, but they start conserving energy, avoiding risk, or telling you only what you want to hear. Influence: the ability to change what people want

Equipping Church Leaders to Support Vulnerable Members

19 March 2026 | Joshua Ling

Care ministry lies at the heart of the Church’s mission. When vulnerable members of your congregation are seen, heard, and supported with both compassion and competence, the Church becomes a safer, healthier place to belong. This blog explores how Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) training, grounded in evidence and faith-informed practice, can empower church leaders and volunteers to respond with care while maintaining safety for all involved. Why Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) Training for Your Church Mental Health First Aid is an evidence-based training course designed to help people recognize mental health problems, provide initial support,

When science backs religion

18 March 2026 | Valerie Ling

Dr Byron Johnson, a senior professor at Baylor University and affiliate at Harvard, emphasizes that his work is rooted in a desire to serve others—scientifically and practically. He describes his approach as “cross-centered,” meaning that at its core, his research aims to unite rigorous sciences with tangible benefits for people’s lives worldwide.He notes that historically, believers led many inquiry fields — from medicine to social sciences — driven by a desire to serve and steward well. Today, Johnson is part of a landmark Global Flourishing Study building on that legacy, seeking to understand what makes life worth living

The Preacher Power Trap

18 March 2026 | Valerie Ling

The preacher power trap is the gap between how much power we feel we have and how much power we actually exercise. Many of us think of ourselves as “just one voice,” perhaps even a tired or embattled one. Yet simply by standing in the pulpit or sitting at the head of the elders’ table, we carry more weight than we realise. People listen differently. They hesitate to disagree. They reorganise their time, money, and consciences around what we say. When we don’t acknowledge this, we can unintentionally use our power in ways that silence, pressure, or wound

The Science Behind John 10:10

17 March 2026 | Valerie Ling

In a world where individual and community well-being often takes center stage, understanding the concept of *Christian flourishing* has become increasingly vital. In this post, we delve into a conversation with Dr. Victor Counted, an Associate Professor of Psychology at Regent University and the founder of the Abundant Life Flourishing Lab. He shares his insights on what it means to flourish as a Christian, the relationship between flourishing and spiritual maturity, and how these concepts can influence the health of church communities. What is Christian Flourishing? Christian flourishing is more than just a buzzword; it is a

Supporting Bible College Students and Early Career Pastors

5 March 2026 | Valerie Ling

The journey into pastoral ministry is complex, shaped by personal history, social environment, and institutional training. Research shows that bible college students and early-career pastors arrive at their roles carrying significant vulnerabilities—adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), mental health challenges, and struggles with identity. Surprisingly, research shows that seminary students often come from backgrounds marked by adversity, which can serve both as a source of strength and a risk factor. Dr David Eagle is an Associate Professor with Duke University, and he is researching the experiences of bible college and early career pastors. Much of Dr. Eagle’s research emphasizes that

Different Clergy Stress Profiles

23 February 2026 | Valerie Ling

Clergy life is full of purpose and meaning—but also complexity and strain. Recent research delved into the qualitative and quantitative dimensions of clergy stress, revealing just how multifaceted and deeply human these experiences are. When Ministry Becomes a Battleground of Expectations One theme stood out clearly: relationships matter profoundly. Conflicts with supervisors—whether District Superintendents, Bishops, or church boards—and with parishioners emerged as significant sources of stress. Interestingly, even though parishioners hold the least formal authority, they were the most frequently cited source of conflict. The emotional toll is significant. Clergy described struggles of frustration, powerlessness, and self-doubt,

Cultivating Flourishing in Ministry: A Wellbeing Plan for the Year Ahead

6 February 2026 | Valerie Ling

Ministry leadership is a uniquely high-stakes and complex profession, distinct from many others due to its inherent ambiguity, lack of boundaries, and the profound personal investment it demands. Research shows that while clergy experience common workplace stressors, their roles involve unique challenges such as the continuous and unpredictable nature of the work, the lack of clear job structures, and the immense pressure from digital communication in a polarised climate. Clergy multi-task at across multiple domains of responsibilities and competency demands, and their work is one of constant juggling. According to the Flourishing in Ministry initiative of Biola University,